1. Tell me about yourself.
Hi! I'm Lauren, a mom of three kiddos from Richmond, VA! My background is in anthropology, and since college, I have spent my professional life working at a non-profit and, for the past decade, for a breastfeeding and maternity e-commerce brand. I am also a Certified Lactation Counselor. I'm a homebirther, have been breastfeeding babies for almost 6 years now, and I'm a firm believer in making empowered and informed decisions for themselves and their families, especially when it comes to birthing and breastfeeding. When I'm not fully engrossed in parenting or work, I like to go for a walk in the woods, ride my bike, craft, or watch birds!

2. How/why did you build LactSafe?
LactSafe was built after a series of moments where I could have really used it. Each instance really pushed me to work with my husband to co-create the app.

Instance one: When my firstborn turned one, I had to have two major surgeries, and I remember vividly being concerned about whether certain medications were safe to take while breastfeeding and not really getting a clear answer. Some said pump and dump to be safe, others said it was fine. It was confusing.

Instance two: When I was pregnant with my third baby, I was given inaccurate advice from an EMT about which medications were safe to take while pregnant and breastfeeding for a sinus infection. I knew his advice was incorrect because I had been a CLC for years, and also had been working on LactSafe, so I was pretty familiar with the medications he was talking about. Nonetheless, I remember being so flabbergasted because if I hadn't had that background knowledge, what would I have done?

That experience led me to instance three, which is more of an ongoing pattern. As a CLC, I've heard so many times folks ask whether a certain medication is safe to take. As a CLC, the response is to check LactMed and talk to your provider. But from personal experience, when you're down bad with a sinus infection or recovering post-surgery, the last thing you have the capacity to do is read through a bunch of medical jargon when you really just want a clear answer on whether you can take this medication while breastfeeding. I've been in those situations, so I 100% get it. You're in so much pain, baby has to eat, and you don't want to give up on your breastfeeding goals. With my husband's help (he built the entire app from start to finish, and who I am co-creating with!), this is when we decided it was time to get LactSafe out into the world! 

My goal for this app is to be a tool that makes medication safety easier to understand and gives parents the confidence to start conversations with their providers, because I've also heard horror stories about people ending their breastfeeding journeys over medications that the research actually says are fine.

3. What is LactSafe's mission or main focus?
LactSafe's mission is to make evidence-based medication safety information easy, fast, and friendly for breastfeeding and pregnant families. Our vision is a world where every parent can make confident health decisions.

4. What are the best and most challenging parts of being an entrepreneur?
Time and energy! I hate that this is such a cliche answer, but as a working full-time parent with three very active kiddos, finding the time to really invest the energy I want into LactSafe has become really hard.

That said, remembering being postpartum and struggling to know if I could still breastfeed my baby post-surgery, and thinking about how I know I'm not the only one struggling with this problem, is what encourages me to keep going. I feel very passionate about this project, and I'm excited to dive back into LactSafe's mission now that the kids are back in school and we have a routine down. :)

5. Where do you see yourself and your business in 5 ­years?
Gosh, it would be an ultimate dream to have LactSafe become the resource providers automatically hand new parents, the way I wish someone had handed it to me. In 5 years I'd love for it to be trusted enough that it's just part of the standard of care, built out with tools like patient insights dashboard and custom provider builds, and known widely enough that no parent has to sit in that scary, confusing moment I was in wondering if they can still breastfeed. Ultimately, if this thing dies tomorrow I'd be happy just knowing it helped at least one other person in their lactation journey!

6. Who do you follow or admire in the breastfeeding/lactation community?
My midwife, Nancy. When I think back to my breastfeeding journey, she really encouraged me to keep going. I appreciate her keeping it real with me and telling me to stick it out. Breastfeeding is beautiful, but it can also be a labor of love and hard work. 100% worth it, but any breastfeeding person would be lying if they said it was all rainbows and sprinkles! Having that support system has been huge. 

7. Tell me about your most recent business win.
I recently launched a pilot for LactSafe for Providers and have been having providers sign up. To me, that shows there's a real need in this space and validates the reason LactSafe exists.

8. Please share any upcoming events or programs you will participate in, or any special offerings for new providers.
We are still offering an early sign-up beta program for providers! If you sign up, you'll get a custom URL referral link. We're also working on launching a patient insights dashboard and a custom build of LactSafe with your brand. More details to come on those latter two, but we are still accepting folks into the beta!

As a doula with over a decade of experience, I have developed numerous relationships within the birth community and strive to stay informed about local birth news for the benefit of my clients and the surrounding parent community. Here are the latest updates regarding birth in the Triangle area. If you are planning to expand your family, there are some amazing resources and support options for you to explore.

​North Carolina Birth Center
Earlier this month, it was announced that North Carolina Birth Center will be closing. This news was sudden and very unexpected. If you read my last update or subscribed to the NCBC newsletter, then you know all that hard work and effort that was put forth to get the former Womens Birth and Wellness Center reconstructed and transformed into the beatutiful and welcoming facility for families. With just over a year in operation, the birth center was doing very well and hiring to accomadate more families, which makes this loss even more devastating. Here is words from the birth center's manager about NCBC's closing:
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"Two and a half years ago, I accepted a position to help open a birth center in Chapel Hill. I was the first employee hired and the only local team member, while the corporate leadership was based out of state.

Over the last 2.5 years, I poured my heart into this work. I monitored construction, assembled furniture, maintain the website and social media, gave tours to EVERY prospective client who walked through our doors, onboarded patients, and supported our midwives as we built something truly special for families in our community.

And now, that work is coming to an abrupt end.

Not because the birth center failed. Not because there was a lack of patients, community support, or interest in the birth center model of care. In fact, we were growing and thriving.

The reality is that the corporate company that managed our birth center, along with many others across the country, made business decisions that left the organization millions of dollars in debt. As a result, they are closing all of their birth centers, laying off employees, and abandoning patients who trusted them with their care.

The heartbreak is difficult to put into words. After years of hard work, dedication, and sacrifice, everything we built is being taken away through circumstances completely outside of our control.

But despite what has happened, my North Carolina Birth Center colleagues and I have made a decision: we will not abandon our patients.

Thanks to the generosity of our building’s landlords, we have been allowed to remain in the space through the end of June. During that time, our midwives and staff are continuing to provide care, support, and guidance to our existing patients as they navigate new birth options.
We are doing this without pay.

We are not asking our patients for a single dollar, even though many employees are still owed weeks of unpaid wages. At the same time, we are covering essential expenses out of pocket, including internet service, office supplies, and other necessities required to continue caring for families during this transition.

A local doula, Andrea Fowler, moved by what was happening, created a GoFundMe to support our team during these final weeks of service. Every donation will help us continue caring for patients, cover operating expenses, and provide some relief as we navigate the loss of our jobs and begin rebuilding our futures.

If you are able to donate, share this fundraiser, or simply send words of encouragement, it means more than you know.

Thank you to everyone who has donated, shared, and reached out with support. Your kindness is helping us continue showing up for the families who need us most.

With heartbreak, frustration, and hope,
Mariam"

Very special thak you to Andrea Fowler for organizing the fundraiser and helping the NCBC staff support the remaining families. Please join BOBWDS in making a donation.

Haven Women's Health and Birth Center
Haven Women's Health and Birth Center recently celebrated their 2nd birthday and are very close to welcoming their 200th baby! Check out their website for classes, support groups and schedule a tour if you're thinking about a birth center for your next birth experience.

Aya Birth & Community Wellness
Aya Wellness NC is now accepting accepting Medicaid for birth services for families due September 2026 & beyond.
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Curious about birth center birth? Aya’s Open House is later this month!
You’ll get to:

• Meet the midwives
• Tour the birth center
• Ask all your questions
• Learn about prenatal care, birth center birth, postpartum care, wellness services, and more
• Feel out whether Aya may be the right place for your care

Saturday, June 27, 10-1pm
Aya Birth & Community Wellness
1412 Hudson Ave Durham, NC 27705

Special Beginnings Midwifery
Special Beginnings Midwifery has opened their birth suites in Durham. The birth suites were thoughtfully designed to feel warm, peaceful, and deeply supportive so families can labor, birth, and bond in a space that feels safe and sacred. Home birth support is still available.

Special Beginnings has also partnered with Well One Healthcare to bring primary care services to their Durham office. This is a choice friendly clinic and crunchy mommy friendly. Services include and routine check ups, newborn/pediatric, prenatal and adult care, FMLA paperwork and prior authorizations, labs & referrals and IV therapy.

Abiding Love Birth Collective
I am so excited to share my new birth collective with you! Since our launch in March, Abiding Love Birth Collective has grown into a wonderful community of Christian doulas and local business owners who are all dedicated to supporting families. I am so blessed to transition into this new phase of my career and am truly thankful for all the support and new clients who trust my leadership and our collective to support them. We are now accepting clients due in August and beyond and will begin accepting applications for new collective members later this summer.

Stay tuned for more birth news!

There’s just something about a crisp, creamy broccoli salad that satisfies your taste buds in every way. This classic, yet underrated side dish, is always a crowd favorite and disappears fast. It’s fresh, flavorful, and perfectly balanced between crunchy, savory, and sweet.

What makes this broccoli salad especially perfect for warm-weather gatherings is how simple it is to prepare ahead of time. The flavors only get better as they chill, making it an easy, stress-free addition to your menu. Packed with crisp broccoli, smoky bacon, and a creamy dressing that ties everything together, this dish brings comfort and crowd-pleasing flavor to every cookout table.

As we gather this Memorial Day weekend — celebrating, remembering, and spending time with the people we love — recipes like this become part of the memories we make together. So grab your serving bowl and get ready for a summer favorite that everyone will be asking you to bring again and again.
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Did you know?

• Broccoli is nutrient-dense. Just one cup of raw broccoli delivers more than 100% of your daily recommended Vitamin C and is rich in Vitamin K. Per ounce, broccoli has as much calcium as milk! It is also highly rich in vitamins A, E, and B6. 
• Broccoli is a great source of fiber. One cup of cooked broccoli gives you about 5 grams of dietary fiber, helping to stabilize blood sugar and manage weight.
• Broccoli is a great cancer-fighting veggie.  It is heavily studied for its rich levels of glucosinolates (a phytochemical), which boast strong anti-inflammatory and antioxidant properties. 
• California produces about 90% of the entire U.S. commercial supply.

Broccoli Salad
Prep Time: 20 minutes
Chill Time: 1 hour

Ingredients:

• Fresh Broccoli Florets
• Mayonnaise
• Apple Cider Vinegar
• Dried Cranberries
• Chopped Bacon
• Ranch dressing (optional)

Instructions:
Wash the broccoli and dry it very well. Cut the florets (and the stem) into bite-sized pieces. Add bacon and cranberries. Whisk the dressing ingredients (mayo, apple cider vinegar, salt and pepper) in a small bowl and set aside. Place the ingredients into a large mixing bowl, and toss with dressing. Remember to allow time for the recipe to chill in the fridge to give the broccoli a chance to soak in some of the dressing, making it more flavorful!

Notes:
Preparing to make your salad- you can prep and make this salad a day before you serve it. Leftovers will keep for 4-5 days.
Substitutions- If you don't like mayo, you can use Miracle Whip, Coleslaw Dressing or Greek yogurt. You can also add bacon bits if you don't want to make bacon for this recipe.
Additional ingredients- Some people add red onion, cheese, sunflower seeds and sugar to their broccoli salad. I like to add a 1/4 cup of ranch dressing for an added kick.

Enjoy!

For Your Information
This recipe is:

• Family-friendly
• Lactation-friendly

• Recommended for pregnancy and postpartum nutrition
• Recommended for cesarean & other post op healing

You have a positive pregnancy test.
Now what?

There’s a moment—sometimes quiet, sometimes overwhelming—when you realize everything has just changed. Whether this pregnancy was long-awaited or a complete surprise, you might be feeling joy, disbelief, gratitude, fear, often all at once. And that's okay. Take a breath. You don’t have to have it all figured out today. Early pregnancy is less about doing everything “right” and more about settling into the reality that your body is beginning an incredibly beautiful process.

In these first days and weeks, one of the most important things you can do is begin building your support system. That includes choosing your care provider, whether that’s an OB-GYN, midwife, or a combination of both, and scheduling your first prenatal appointment. This visit typically happens around 8–10 weeks, though some providers will see you sooner depending on your history. At that appointment, you can expect a mix of medical history questions, lab work, and possibly your first ultrasound. It can feel like a lot, especially if this is your first time navigating the healthcare system in pregnancy, so don’t hesitate to write down questions ahead of time. You deserve to feel informed, heard, and supported from the very beginning.

Meanwhile, your body is doing intense behind-the-scenes work, and the first trimester can be humbling. Fatigue isn’t just “being tired”. It can feel like your body is asking you to slow down in a way you’re not used to. Nausea, food aversions, bloating, headaches, and emotional ups and downs are all common. Give yourself permission to adjust your expectations. Eat what you can tolerate, when you can tolerate it. Small, frequent meals often help, as does staying hydrated, even if that means sipping water slowly throughout the day. Ginger, vitamin B6, and rest can be supportive, but most of all, listen to your body. This is not the season to push through at full speed.

Sharing your news is another layer to navigate, and there’s no universal timeline. Some families choose to tell close loved ones right away, while others wait until after the first trimester. Both choices are valid. Consider who you would want in your corner if things felt uncertain—that can help guide your decision. When it comes to work, you are not obligated to share immediately unless your job involves physical risks or requires early accommodations. When you do share, it can be helpful to come prepared with a general idea of your needs, even if they’re minimal at first.

Your partner, if you have one, may be experiencing their own mix of emotions, and this is a beautiful time to begin growing together in this journey. Support in early pregnancy often looks simple but meaningful. Helping with meals, picking up extra responsibilities when you’re exhausted, attending appointments when possible and creating space for open conversations. Encouragement, patience and presence go a long way. This is also a great time to start learning together—about pregnancy, birth options, and what kind of experience you both hope to create.

If you’ve walked this road before, this pregnancy may feel familiar in some ways and completely new in others. Expanding your family, especially going from one child to two, brings a different kind of preparation. There’s the emotional piece of knowing your firstborn will no longer be your only, and the practical reality of managing your energy while still parenting. You may feel a pull between savoring your time with your older child and preparing for what’s ahead. Invite them into the journey in age-appropriate ways by talking about the baby, reading books together and letting them feel involved. At the same time, be gentle with yourself. Parenting while pregnant can be physically and emotionally demanding, and it’s okay if this season looks different than your first.

You might also find yourself thinking more intentionally about postpartum this time around. What support did you wish you had before? What would make the transition smoother for your family now? These are important questions worth sitting with early.
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Above all, know this: you don’t have to do pregnancy perfectly. There is no gold standard of how you should feel or what you should be doing at every moment. There is only your body, your baby, and your unfolding story. Surround yourself with care, stay curious, and give yourself grace as you step into this new chapter.

Ready to have support from day one?
Reach out to schedule a complimentary consultation and learn more about doula services, birth planning, and postpartum support.

There comes a time in many women’s lives when their bodies begin to feel… unfamiliar.

You may notice shifts that don’t quite make sense. Fatigue that lingers, emotions that feel harder to regulate, sleep that no longer restores you, or a body that seems to respond differently no matter what you try.

If you’ve found yourself thinking, “I don’t feel like myself anymore,” please know this:
You are not broken. You are not alone. And your body is not working against you.

You may be entering perimenopause or menopause, a powerful, natural transition that too often goes unrecognized, misunderstood or unsupported.

When Your Body Feels Like a Stranger
For many women, perimenopause begins quietly. Cycles may shift. Energy dips. Mood changes appear without warning. You might feel disconnected from your body, like the rhythms you once understood are now unpredictable.
And yet, when you seek answers, you’re often met with confusion—or worse, dismissal.
You may hear:

• “Your labs look normal.”
• “It’s just stress.”
• “That’s part of getting older.”

But what you’re experiencing is real. And it deserves care, attention and understanding.

Little Known Truths About Perimenopause & Menopause
There is so much about this stage of life that women are simply not taught. Let’s bring a few important truths into the light:
1. Perimenopause Can Start Earlier Than You Think
Many women believe menopause begins in their 50s, but perimenopause can begin as early as the late 30s or early 40s, sometimes even sooner.

2. It’s So Much More Than Hot Flashes
While hot flashes are commonly discussed, there are 30+ possible symptoms, including anxiety and panic attacks, brain fog and memory issues, joint pain and inflammation, sleep disturbances, mood swings and irritability and weight redistribution (especially around the midsection).

3. Hormones Impact Your Entire Body
These changes don’t just affect your cycle. They influence your metabolism, your mental health, your cardiovascular system and your bone density.

4. Many Women Are Misdiagnosed or Undersupported
Because awareness is limited, many women are told they have depression, thyroid disorders or
chronic fatigue.

While these conditions can be real, hormonal shifts are often a missing piece of the puzzle.

The Reality of Women’s Healthcare in Midlife
Here’s the hard truth: Women’s health, especially in midlife, has historically been under-researched and underfunded. Many healthcare providers receive little formal training in menopause care. As a result:

• Symptoms are often minimized or overlooked
• Women are left to piece together answers on their own
• Preventative, holistic approaches are rarely discussed

This gap in care leaves many women feeling unseen, unheard and unsupported during one of the most significant transitions of their lives. But it doesn’t have to be this way.

Menopause Isn't the End of Life as You Know It-It’s an Invitation
What if this season isn’t something to endure… but something to step into with intention?
Menopause is not an ending, it’s an invitation.
An invitation to:

• take charge of your health in a deeper, more informed way
• reconnect with your body and learn its new language
• redefine how you want to feel each day
• decide who you want to be in this next phase of life

This is a time of transformation, not loss.

My Journey & Why I Do This Work
Like my work as a doula, this work is deeply personal to me. I’m not speaking from a distance, I am walking through this stage of life too. I understand what it feels like to question your body, to search for answers and to desire a sense of balance and clarity again. That’s why I'm introducing my Menopause Lifestyle Coaching—to offer women the kind of support I know is needed in this season.

A Holistic Approach to Menopause Support
Through my coaching (I actually prefer mentoring), I provide physical and mental guidance and support for the real-life challenges of perimenopause and menopause. This is not a one-size-fits-all approach. Your body, your lifestyle and your needs are unique.
Together, we focus on:

• Lifestyle Management- You’ll receive a customized nutrition and wellness plan designed to support your hormones, energy, and overall wellbeing.
• Movement That Supports Your Body- As a GGS Certified Menopause Specialist, I guide you through a personalized movement program that works with your body, not against it.
• Mental & Emotional Support- We address the often-overlooked emotional side of this transition, helping you navigate stress, mood changes and identity shifts with compassion and care.
• Optional Spiritual Support- As with all of my services, a spiritual component can be incorporated into your wellness plan if desired because true wellness often includes both body and spirit.

If you’ve been feeling disconnected, overwhelmed or unsure of what’s happening in your body, I want you to know that:
There is support available to you.
There is knowledge that can empower you.
There are ways to feel like yourself again—grounded, energized, and whole.
You deserve more than just getting through this season.
You deserve to thrive in it.

​If you’re ready to better understand your body and feel supported in this transition, I invite you to connect with me. Let’s walk this journey together with intention, education and care.